Family

Here's to the Memories We Had

Saturday, March 25, 2017


10 months. 44 weeks. 304 days. 438,000 minutes. 

That's how long we've been together. It hasn't been that long but it still feels like yesterday when we met each other. I was part of the few people who transferred into your section, but I felt very welcomed and I didn't feel out of place. Although I was really shocked of how loud you guys were, I will always miss your noises. I will always remember our jamming sessions during break times and even our dance sessions (Exponent of Two where you at lol).I will always remember our shoots, painful and tiring warm ups during cheer dance competition, our hassle and very early meet ups in SM Marikina, our cutting sessions, and cheating sessions on short quizzes. We've been through a lot of ups and downs but I am happy that we didn't give up on each other.  

As we step out of the class and step into a new milestone, I wanted to thank you for giving me the memories that I never thought I would have. Thank you to the people who brought the best out of me (Tiya Yvette), to the people who always join me in finding cute boys (Dan, Stef, and Kat), to the people who taught me how to be confident (Jessar and Gerald), to those people that showed me how friendships should be like (Jake, Klint, Jelai, Rina, Alecs and the rest of your squad), to the people who always join me in fangirling over korean dramas and kpop groups (Gissele, Kat, Krizzia, Danica, Sofie, Airene and Catubao) and to the people who would eat with me on Chowking even though they have no money (#TeamReal #TeamChowking where you at lol). I would treasure all this memories that we had. I wish you all the best in your studies and your future careers. 

I am sorry for being overly dramatic. Even though I am not sure if I would transfer school, I am writing this entry in case I had to leave. Again, thank you for the memories. Until, we meet again.





Movie/Drama Reviews

A Movie Review: The Beauty Inside

Saturday, March 25, 2017

NO one can deny the fact that physical appearance really matters in this world. From job applications to relationships, people always look at your physical appearance. But what if one day, you wake up with a different physical appearance? And what if your new appearance is a fat, ugly and old appearance?

This is not new to Woojin (played by 21 actors), a young successful furniture designer who always wake up in the morning completely transformed into a different person. Yes, a different person. There will be days where he would be a Japanese girl, a grandmother, and even a little kid.


It's weird, right? I also found it very weird when I first watched the trailer of the film. At the beginning of the film, he wakes up in someone's bed after a one night stand completely transformed into a fat guy. He quickly leaves the room, scared of what might happen if the girl sees her. No one actually knows about his secret except for his Mom and his best friend, Sangbaek. He never got used to it, even though this started happening when he turned 18. He only knew one thing, and that is to hide himself.


But of course you can't hide yourself forever. Everything changes for Woojin when she meets the woman of her life, Yisoo, a furniture sales woman. Everyday he would come back to the furniture shop, buying the things that she would recommend. He was so in love but he couldn't introduce himself to her because of his situation. Until one day, he wakes up transformed into a handsome man.


With just his handsomeness, he managed to ask her to a dinner at his place. But another problem arises as he realized that if he sleep that night, he might lose his handsome face once again and be transformed to an ugly person the next day. He manages to stay awake for 3 days but he fell asleep on the subway and waked up transformed into an ugly man, again.


This pushed him to tell her his situation. At first, it wasn't easy for Yisoo. But then, Yisoo also fell in love with him, so she came back to him and asked if they could sleep together. That was one of the fascinating things in the movie, the fact that Yisoo showed that a woman can be both beautiful inside and out. She stayed by Woojin's side and accepted all his flaws and of course his different appearances. Their relationship was just like any other relationships, going out on dates, sleeping together, cooking for each other, and other things that a normal couple do (including that "thing") but  of course, there are no perfect relationships.

From the "everything is perfect" moment, things escalated quickly as several conflicts arise like Yisoo wanted to introduce Woojin to her family and her friends but she couldn't because she didn't know how they would react to his situation and how she pretended to be fine although she was falling apart on the inside.

This movie was more than just "the beauty inside of us also matters too." This movie is also able to highlight several themes about love and how we usually pretend to be okay when its not. This may be not  everyone's cup of tea because of its unrealistic plot but this is a pure art that will make you think and ponder what's more behind the whole plot itself as the conflicts were complex and gives an idea about human nature and true love.



Summer Getaway

The School Getaway

Friday, March 24, 2017

School days are finally over. No more sleepless nights (unless you're planning a K-drama or movie marathon this summer vacation for a day), waking up at 4 am, going home late, practice for speech choir or even group meetings for thesis or research. Since school days are over, it's time to unwind and enjoy an early summer getaway. 

But for me, a summer getaway isn't the summer getaway that you're expecting. As much as I wanted to go and see the emerald sea glinting under the sun or even the cityscape in Baguio while drinking coffee, that was not the scenario. I like to keep it simple. I like to go out with my friends for one last time.

It was just supposed to be a simple meet-up to pass our other requirements but we planned to go somewhere else after that. We went to a youth service. I've been to a youth service for several times already but yesterday was still awesome. After that, we stuffed ourselves with good food, talked and laughed like we always do inside the classroom. Of course, we didn't forget to take a stroll and look for cute boys that will never date us.


SMH THESE GUYS 

#BoyHunting2k17
I know what you're thinking. This wasn't the summer getaway that you were expecting. But for me, this was the perfect summer getaway. We may not be in the standing on the beach or travelling to other destinations. But one day we'll have our perfect summer getaway. We'll be riding airplanes, drinking the finest wines while the world under us continue revolving. We'll be standing on beaches or sitting in front of camp fires, roasting our marshmallows or jamming to songs that we used to like. We'll be standing on roof tops and swim at the most beautiful seas in the world. We'll be travelling to places without thinking of the life we have.  But for the mean time, let's just enjoy and do not forget this moment. 



Poem

Star-crossed lovers

Thursday, March 16, 2017


She was the summer, the sun, and the light
With a heart made out of dandelions and the rays of sunshine
Her fingertips make the peonies bloom
With a simple smile, she lights up the room

He was the winter, the night and the storm
He had the lightning and thunder in his bones
He was the cold wind that sends shivers to her spine
He held the stars in his eyes and the galaxy in his soul

She thought she was a part of him
The sun that gives light to the stars of his galaxy
A star that was never enough to light up the darkness within
But they were two stars who are always meant to cross but not meant to be

She was the summer to his winter
He was the rain that her heart lives for
He found warmth in her
But in his arms was her destruction

She was the summer and he was the winter
He blew the dandelions in her heart and kissed her goodbye
She was the sun and he was the moon
And they were never meant to meet in the same sky

Study tips

STUDY SMARTER: The Secret in Acing your Exams Like A Boss

Thursday, March 16, 2017


Reviewing for your exams can be stressful. You need a lot of hard work (and a lot of time!) to cram all the information you need to learn inside your head. While hard work is obviously one of the most important things a student should have to get better scores in exams and better grades, these days working hard isn't enough. You also need to work "smart". Knowing where to work hard can make all the differences. As the exam week approach, here are some scientifically proven tips that I tried and I am still using until now on how to ace your exams like a boss (without getting #Stressedt)

D-60 (2 months before the exam)

1. Start your review from Day 1.

YUP. You just read it. Start your review from Day 1. What I am trying to say is, study EVERY DAY. I know you think it's awful because you have to study every day but you don't really have to study the whole day. Alot an hour or two in reading your notes or reading in advance. This will make all your next review sessions easier as this technique helps you to retain all the information that you have read.

2. Always be present at class.

Being present in class every day is very important. Being present in class allows you to study easily and ask questions from your teachers for clarification. Of course, your presence is not enough. Make sure you listen to the lecture too. As much as possible, if you can choose where to sit in class, sit at the front. This will help you to hear the teacher clearly and concentrate on the lessons. 

3. Take down notes!


This is actually one of the most effective techniques that I've been using since I was in Grade 4 (I am not kidding here. I developed good study habits at a very young age so..). It has been proven that writing things down can help us remember the important stuff. Before I used to take down notes on a separate notebook but currently I am trying out a technique I saw on youtube where you take notes using post-it notes, colored pens, and highlighters.



You can also create headings, subheadings, and table of contents to find the topics that you need to review easily. Add some symbols, doodles, and acronyms that will help you remember certain topics.


4. Keep a Planner.


Keeping a planner helped me a lot in keeping track of the things that I should do for the day, the week, and the rest of the month. As much as possible, assign a certain color for certain activities like a review session, met-ups, deadlines, etc.

D-21 (3 weeks before the exams)

1. Finalize your notes! 

Make sure that all of your notes are complete by this time so that reviewing will be easier. If you don't like taking notes, you can highlight important details and insert keywords that will remind you the summary of that certain paragraph or part of the lesson.

2. Finalize your study schedule and test schedule.

Finish all your projects and other deadlines so your attention and focus wouldn't be diverted to other things aside from your exams. Start making your final review schedule after you finalize your test schedule.

3. Start reviewing, one lesson at a time.

Start reviewing your past lessons. Modify your notes from time to time if you have too. Remember that the smallest details matter too like how, why, what is the result, what is the reason and others.


D-3 (3 days before the exams)

1. Say goodbye to your social media accounts.

As much as possible, stay away from your phones while studying because this could distract you while you are reviewing. Deactivate your accounts or clear the data of the social media app that you are using so that you won't hear a single notification and get distracted while you are studying.

2. Review! Review! Review! 

Review each subject according to their order. (Day 1 of review sessions= Day 1 Exam subjects). In this part, you have to review like you will have your exams tomorrow. If you always cram in reviewing, it's not the kind of review that I was talking about right now. You have to review the lessons from the biggest details to the smallest details. Don't just review the definitions. As much as possible, do not review using your reviewer. Although it is indeed easier to review, it doesn't have all the information related to the lessons (it's more on definitions and can only be useful in enumeration and meaning-based exams). Make some quiz cards if you have time. These quiz cards consists of possible exam questions that you have to answer the day before your exam.

D-1 (The day before the exam)

1. Read, understand, and do not memorize.

Memorizing will only make you forget more things. Instead of memorizing, read your notes (which is a summarized version of your material) then recite what you have just read. Do not use the exact words written on your notes except for some terms. You have to recite it based on your understanding. You can do this 3 to 4 times then move to the next lesson. You already reviewed the lesson for several times now so there's no need for you to memorize and spend more time on re-reading your notes. If you are already done with your review, answer the quiz cards that you made (either orally or written).

2. Stay away from your phone. Avoid distractions. 

Even though you have reviewed several times before and you think it's okay to tweet or post on facebook because you are just answering the quiz cards, you are wrong. Believe me, I've been there. Remember that tomorrow is your exam and every hour matters. In addition to that, you have study breaks so you don't have to pull out your phone while you are studying.

3. Take short study breaks.


Studying for straight 2 hours or more can be tiring. Eat something or listen to music, play some games for 10 minutes then go back in reviewing. It may be tempting to extend your break times, but control yourself. As I said a while ago, every minute and every hour matters. 

4. Go to sleep.

After reviewing, make sure to go to sleep. Your eyes and brain need to take a rest too for it to function well tomorrow. But if you are part of the #TeamNoSleep during exam days, take a nap. Although I still do good when I don't sleep (Not bragging. I'm just saying I am used to not going to bed on exam days), I do better when I take a nap. Remember, pushing yourself to your goals is different from pushing yourself to your limit.

D-DAY (The Exam Day)

Keep calm, pray and do your best. After you receive the test questionnaire, scan the test and find the easiest parts so you know where to move if you are having a hard time in answering the questions. If you are not sure of an answer, skip the question and proceed to the next questions. Check your answers before submitting your answer sheet. Review if you have time. Eat if you are hungry. Go to the bathroom if you need to go. Do not expect but know that you did your best.


Experience

Struggles of a HUMSS student (with tips!)

Sunday, March 12, 2017


ILLUSTRATION BY VICTOR IAN COVARRUBIAS

1. You have to be confident.

The key to survive this strand is to be confident. One of the possible jobs of HUMSS are reporters, politician and lawyers and these jobs requires confidence. HUMSS students are expected to be good communicators and public speakers and so this strands has a lot of presentation activities to prepare students for their future jobs. So if you have anxieties or stage frights like me, this strand is not good for your health.

2. You have to be good at everything.

While a STEM student should be good in Science, ABM on Math and GAS on public speaking, A HUMSS student should be good in writing, public speaking, statistics, and all other subjects. In short, you have to know everything, from laws, culture, religion, science, language and everything in humanity. But you don't have to be necessarily good at everything but you really have to work hard in being good at everything. In that way, we could be good writers, reporter, politicians, lawyers and social workers who speak only facts and serve the country well. 

3. You need to challenge your own beliefs.

Being a HUMSS students will really challenge your beliefs. In this strand, you will have a lot of debates even in the middle of discussions. If you are the kind of person to be offended easily and is very close minded, then you have to open that mind of yours darling.

4. Lots of writing activities and presentations!


This is pretty much expected in this strand. Since some of the people in this strand are aspiring writers, even if you're taking psychology or criminology in college, you have no choice but to do this. You'll also have a lot of presentations. From stage plays, short film, monologue, extemporaneous speech, impromptu speech, and speech choir, the list is endless. 


5. Teachers expect so much when it comes to short films. 


Teachers have a lot of expectations to HUMSS students when it comes to film productions. Even though you're still in Senior High School, they are still expecting a lot because HUMSS students are future writers, producers, directors, and video editors. Expectations are always there but its your choice if you will let this expectations be a part of your stress.

6. You are constantly being looked down by other people (and your family).

This is very common when it comes to HUMSS student. Other people think that we have no future in this strand and we wanted to be politicians when in reality majority of the jobs that have high salaries are HUMSS related and being a politician is not the only job for a HUMSS student. We love what we are doing and studying liberal arts won't make us poor and die lonely because our passion is what we live for.



Letter

Letter to Myself

Sunday, March 12, 2017


Thank you.

For being there in my loneliest nights as I am lying on the floor, crying, shaking and wishing it would end. Thank you for finding the strength to carry on the hardest days of my life. The days were I couldn't even stand up and wake up from the dreams fabricated by my lonely heart.Thank you for loving me when no one else could see my worth. Thank you for telling me to when to stop giving, because I gave too much of myself that I lost my soul and felt empty inside. Thank you for being there when I couldn't even love myself and look in the mirror because I am lost in my insecurities and I am blinded by what they say to me. Thank you for pulling me out my dark world to see the world that I've been missing and to be seen by the world even though at first I didn't want to. Thank you for showing me that I deserve the love that I give.

But now I am sorry.

That I've let the wrong people in my life thinking that I deserve to be loved that way. I am sorry that I hurt you, and now you're crying and wondering why they never stayed. I am sorry that you can't trust people right now, and now you have go through this alone, with no one to wipe your tears and hug you tight. I am sorry for thinking that I needed somebody else to feel okay. 

I am sorry, but you only have me.

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